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OVERVIEW OF THE NEGATIVE\u00a0 MINDSETS THAT DO US IN VS. THE SRT WAY.<\/u><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n

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The awful irony of INCORRECT MINDSETS<\/u> is they often accomplish exactly the OPPOSITE of what you seek based upon a faulty lens that limits
\nyour options rather than moving forward<\/u>.
\nThe SRT WAY promotes POSITIVITY<\/u><\/i>.<\/i>
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10 DOOMING MINDSETS<\/u><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

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1. IT<\/a>\u2019S A MAD, MAD, MAD WORLD:<\/u><\/span> \u201cOften I feel people are angry with me and I react! .<\/span><\/u>THE SRT WAY<\/em> <\/span>teaches how to hear correctly, and express real anger safely and productively.<\/span> <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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2. PERSONALIZATION<\/u><\/span>:<\/span>\u00a0 <\/u>\u201cI take all criticism personally.\u201d<\/u> The SRT WAY<\/em><\/span> teaches IDENTIFYING the real issues without presuming self-blame, increasing confidence using OT or Optional Thinking.<\/em><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

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3. UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS<\/u>:<\/span> \u201cI expect people to \u201cknow\u201d and \u201cshare\u201d my beliefs, thoughts.<\/u>\u201d<\/u> THE SRT WAY<\/em><\/span> teaches others are not mind-readers. Negotiate fairly and stop expecting psychics.\u00a0 <\/em><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

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4. CATASTROPHIZING<\/u>:<\/u><\/span> \u201cI hyper-react\/expect catastrophe\u201d:<\/u>\u00a0 Even little things that go wrong become catastrophic<\/em> or huge. THE SRT WAY<\/em><\/span>. SRT<\/em> teaches managing problems proportionally .<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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5. ESTEEM DEMON<\/u>:<\/u><\/span> \u201cI\u2019m not good enough. I don\u2019t deserve happiness:\u201d<\/u>. THE SRT WAY<\/em><\/span> teaches how to lose those INCORRECT BELIEFS ABOUT OURSELVES and will help prove and believe it.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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6. ABSOLUTISM<\/u>: <\/u><\/span>\u201cI Believe There\u2019s Only One Absolute Right\/Wrong. Mine\u201d <\/u>There\u2019s no debate. THE SRT WAY<\/em><\/span> teaches respecting other opinions and claiming when you\u2019re wrong. <\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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7. PERFECTIONISM \u2013 \u201cTHE BEST<\/u><\/span>\u201d:<\/span> \u201cImperfect is not acceptable<\/u>. <\/u>THE SRT WAY <\/em><\/span>teaches that there is no \u2018best.\u2019 To expect it will make us feel miserable. SRT teaches OVERALL SELF-ACCEPTANCE. <\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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8. MEASURE ME \u2018SUCCESSFUL\u2019\u201d:<\/span> \u201c<\/u>My goal is success! No matter how or what it takes. No mistakes allowed.\u201d THE SRT WAY<\/em><\/span> is determination and seeing failure as a learning experience.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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9. APPEARANCES MATTER HUGELY<\/u>:<\/span> \u201cEveryone else is better than me and can judge me.\u201d <\/u>THE SRT WAY<\/em><\/span> teaches you to value you more than others and set your own standards. \u00a0\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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10. YOU ARE WHAT YOU ARE. PEOPLE DON\u2019T CHANGE:<\/u><\/span> \u201cChange is impossible<\/u>.\u201d Some of us feel that we are prisoners of our DNA, brain function, hormones, experience\/personality.
\nTHE SRT WAY<\/em><\/span>\u00a0 teaches that Change is absolutely possible, in fact, neuropsychologists now claim that through neuroplasticity, the brain learns, adjusts and yes, changes.\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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CHANGE IS UP TO YOU! IT TAKES GUTS. IT TAKES COMMITMENT.\u00a0 ONCE ACCOMPLISHED, YOU WILL SEE MAJOR SRT SHIFTS IN THINKING.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

BUT IT\u2019S WORTH IT TO ACHIEVE ULTIMATE MATURITY:\u00a0 Developing STRATEGIC RELATIONSHIP THINKING requires intentional sequential evolution in how we think, feel, and react to reach Strategic Maturity. When accomplished, difficult emotions and circumstances are manageable and our view of ourselves, our partners, and others are based on Reality and Positivity. Together we can achieve the SRT-5: CONFIDENCE,\u201d \u201cPURPOSE,\u201d \u201cFREEDOM,\u201d \u201cGROWTH,\u201d \u201cPEACE\u201d ON OUR WAY TO A JOYOUS LIFE AND LEGACY.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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THE STRATEGIES: POWERFUL TOOLS YOU CAN USE EVERY DAY, <\/span>
\nWITH YOUR MATE, CHILDREN, FAMILY, FRIENDS, AND CO-WORKERS, BASED ON COMMON SENSE REALITY,<\/span>
\nthey will be summarized here, and described in detail in our first SRT Book. “STRATEGIES”<\/em> <\/span>
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CONTACT INFORMATION:
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