{"id":812,"date":"2024-02-09T03:30:31","date_gmt":"2024-02-09T03:30:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thesrtway.com\/?page_id=812"},"modified":"2024-11-13T11:42:34","modified_gmt":"2024-11-13T11:42:34","slug":"srt-the-10-stages-to-the-mature-self","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/thesrtway.com\/?page_id=812","title":{"rendered":"SRT: THE 10 STAGES TO THE MATURE SELF"},"content":{"rendered":"<section class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\"><p>[vc_row css_animation=&#8221;&#8221; row_type=&#8221;row&#8221; use_row_as_full_screen_section=&#8221;no&#8221; type=&#8221;full_width&#8221; angled_section=&#8221;no&#8221; text_align=&#8221;left&#8221; background_image_as_pattern=&#8221;without_pattern&#8221;][vc_column][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><b><u>CONGRATS. YOU\u2019RE READY FOR THE HOWS: THE <span style=\"color: #800000;\">10 STAGES<\/span> TO THE MATURE SELF:<br \/>\n<\/u><\/b><\/strong><strong><b><u>ACTUALIZING YOUR POWER THROUGH <span style=\"color: #800000;\">SRATEGIC RELATIONSHIP THINKING (SRT)<\/span> .<\/u><\/b><\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row css_animation=&#8221;&#8221; row_type=&#8221;row&#8221; use_row_as_full_screen_section=&#8221;no&#8221; type=&#8221;full_width&#8221; angled_section=&#8221;no&#8221; text_align=&#8221;left&#8221; background_image_as_pattern=&#8221;without_pattern&#8221;][vc_column][vc_single_image image=&#8221;813&#8243; img_size=&#8221;large&#8221; alignment=&#8221;center&#8221; style=&#8221;vc_box_rounded&#8221; qode_css_animation=&#8221;&#8221;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row css_animation=&#8221;&#8221; row_type=&#8221;row&#8221; use_row_as_full_screen_section=&#8221;no&#8221; type=&#8221;full_width&#8221; angled_section=&#8221;no&#8221; text_align=&#8221;left&#8221; background_image_as_pattern=&#8221;without_pattern&#8221;][vc_column][vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1707449600129{border-right-width: 30px !important;border-left-width: 30px !important;}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><b><u>PART <\/u><\/b><b>ONE: FOOT ON THE LADDER. <\/b><b><u>To grow and mature, we must get rid of those \u201cdemons\u201d that are holding us back from truly maturing and reaching our full potential.<\/u><\/b><b>\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong> 1.\u00a0 ID THE ALIEN: The <u>Active Admission and Awareness of Feeling like an Alien (outsider) in your own life\/world. Too often you feel bad, even miserable about one or many issues. <\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">2.\u00a0 <strong>UNMASK MINEFIELDS<u>:<\/u> <u>These are incorrect MINDSETS through which we interpret the world and react incorrectly. They sabotage our lives and feelings. <\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>3.\u00a0 THE PRESUMPTION SPIRAL: <u>As we saw, the MINDSETS cause us to think or PRESUME<\/u><\/strong><u> <strong>incorrect MEANINGS. More as we explore, we see the initial meaning come<br \/>\nfrom experiences that have caused emotional damage. <\/strong><\/u><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>4.\u00a0 UNRAVEL THE SPIRAL: <u>We look each MINDSET PRESUMPTION, where it leads, along with <em>where<\/em> this stunning fear comes from and the functional CONSEQUENCES.<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>5.\u00a0 PLAY DEVIL\u2019S ADVOCATE:<\/strong> <strong><u>We CHALLENGE our saboteurs using<\/u><\/strong><u> <strong>proofs and reality to show the fundamental error of our MINDSETS, AND PRESUMPTIONS. <\/strong><\/u><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>6.\u00a0 OPTIONAL THINKING (OT): <u>With OT AND TAKING A BREATH, we learn to replace faulty beliefs with correct Identification \/Clarification by asking what else it can be or is meant. <\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>PART TWO: CLIMBING THE LADDER. <\/strong><\/span><strong><u>Once we\u2019ve accomplished the above we now have the space to continue to grow in peace, with confidence.<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>7.\u00a0 SHIFT STRATEGIES: <u>We lose our Incorrect Reactions and<\/u><\/strong><u> <strong>substitute new, effective strategies to handle problems accurately that work for us and others. <\/strong><\/u><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>8.\u00a0 CHIRK UP YOUR QUIRK: We f<u>ind and LOVE the <span style=\"color: #800000;\">unique<\/span> \u201cus.\u201d With minefields gone, we can breathe, see and act on our gifts, dreams, ambitions.<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>9.\u00a0 LIVE WITH PURPOSEFUL PASSION:<u> We turn our passion into a purpose that matters to us.<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong><em>Deviate from the usual, focusing instead on principles such as listening to and laughing with others, and understanding your purpose in life.<br \/>\n<\/em><\/strong><strong> &#8212; Dr. Gladys McGarey, age 102\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong> 10. ENJOY ENLIGHTENED PEACE: Once we have grown as a result of the above, we will be avoidance averse, feel enlightened, at peace and moving toward our full potential.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>May we all be GRATEFUL FOR HAVING MADE THE JOURNEY and SHARE IT. \u00a0<u>It\u2019s an almost transcendent feeling to grow into a life <\/u><\/strong><\/span><strong><u><span style=\"color: #000000;\">of \u201cCONFIDENCE,\u201d \u201cPURPOSE,\u201d \u201cFREEDOM,\u201d \u201cGROWTH,\u201d AND\u00a0 \u201cPEACE\u201d ON OUR WAY TO A JOYOUS LIFE AND LEGACY\u2013<\/span> <span style=\"color: #800000;\">THE SRT-5.<\/span><\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Now our triad is complete: birth, and death and the way to maximize our lives and legacies. <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>This is my greatest wish for you. Hey, I\u2019ve got your back. 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